So, im told to clean the kitchen. I say “awwh, but why cant i clean the living room?” mom says “because i said so.” I walk into the kitchen, finish what i was doing on my phone when mom walks back in. She then proceeds to YELL at me, about how when were are at my Aunts i have no problem cleaning the kitchen. Which i don’t. Mainly because its not neaaaaaaaaaaaar as bad as ours. She then says that i don’t care about putting the dishes in and out of the dish washer like my aunt had told me to one night. I then correct her by saying, that i have NEVER volunteered to put the dishes IN the dishwasher. That i have put them up, but hate putting them in. She then calls me a liar, and then threatens to call my aunt to ask her. I don’t understand why she was going to call her because i have not once said that i have never put them in at my aunts. i actually said i didn’t like\volunteered to do it. She then gets pissed and rages about how if i’m not responsible enough to clean the kitchen, then i’m not responsible to have my license, my phone, be in cheer, and so forth. And like i have said to her before, if she thinks i’m not responsible enough to do cheer than i will quit. But she always declines. I have also said that i didn’t need my license. But she said that i did. And when i told my dad that a car wasn’t a necessity for me right now, she bitches me out because i “need my license”. and the only times i had even asked for my license was when i mentioned that one of my friends is younger than me and is already reading the ED book, so i asked for the book, so i can be ready for the time comes. i never asked for my licence in literal terms. So if she wants to rub in my face that i’m not responsible enough for any of those things, then don’t even give them to me in he first place, because honestly, just so i can make her happy, and stop bitching at me all the time, i will quit cheer, and easily wait for my license. that was my plans in the first place. So anyways, through out this whole kitchen converstion, i had never did any of the folowing,
- Said i WOULDNT clean the kitchen, because i was.
- Yell, i may have raised my voice, but that was to be heard over her yelling, but not i once did yell.
- Or lie. I told the honest truth and nothing but the truth, wanna know how, because almost all of it was my own opinions.
I then proceed to tell her that, she is making such a big deal out of all this, just because i asked to clean the living room instead and ‘bitch’. and honestly even if i was bitching, at least i was still going to clean the kitchen. She declines making a big deal out of it. So i just stop. But she continues about how i am making a big deal out of it and not her. So i just say Yes Ma’am. She takes this the wrong way. I did not say ‘Yes Ma’am” in an attitude, nor just to be a smart ass. I said it because i wanted her to get off my back, and just stop. And i said it. NORMALLY. She then says “Now give me your phone” and i ask “why” and she then says ’ i’m being a smart ass.” i decline by saying “no i wasn’t?” and she then begins mimicking me by saying “yes Ma’am” in a completely different way from what i had said. And needless to say i never have and never will sound like that. Anyways, after that scenario, everything stops, im cleaning the kitchen and my mom sits on the couch and calls my aunt. That’s when she starts putting words into my mouth, making ME look like the bad one. And like i said before, i told her to stop making a big deal out of it, and she said she wasn’t. Well if she wasn’t she wouldn’t have called my aunt, and spilled our business to her. And not even the right business. Like i said, she was putting words into my mouth. So, great day huh?
So, you don’t like her. You don’t care about her. You don’t give a flying fuck about her… then why do you care that shes dating one of your friends. I don’t understand why you care when you “don’t care about her”… Or is it me? I think i might be taking this the wrong way… i hope /: Don’t want to go down that road agaiiin.
